One person who has adjusted the most to maa’s absence for long durations during the day is Devaangi. I salute my bacha for being so understanding and patient despite her innocent age especially when we all feel that such a small child cannot understand anything. I joined back work after Devaangi completed 5 months and from there on bacha has adjusted well to the routine.
bacha has a body clock set to ensure that most of the times she wakes up minutes before either maa’s getting ready or about to leave J and just not lets maa leave J bas phir kya hai bacha is in maa’s lap and moment someone tries to take her she starts crying.. phir dheere dheere daadi or maid will take bacha and move with her into another room so that maa can leave for work.. trust me it is hard to leave bacha like this and leave!!! Par moment maa is out of house bacha bhool jaata hai ki aisa kuch hua J and doesn’t miss maa(at least shows that she doesn’t miss me)
bache ne kitna miss kiya yeah pata chalta hai by the time day is over. During the day bacha is mostly in the drawing room, that is where her play area has been set. Jaise hi evening hoti hai and bell rings, bacha starts looking towards the door as though expecting maa to enter.
When I come back and bacha sets her eyes on me, she forgets everything and every other person around. U must see the sheer joy and pleasure on bacha ’s face. She simply jumps with pleasure and excitement and it becomes difficult for me to even visit the loo or keep my bags down and have a glass of water. Lemme just try to do any of these without taking bacha in my arms and bacha starts howling ki maa mujhe chod ke andar kaise chale gayi J
The way bacha clings to me at the end of the day makes each one of us at home realize how much she has missed me during the day
For past few months bacha has developed a special way of showing her affection. It all started with bacha clinging around my neck and sucking my cheeks. Slowly to the category of cheeks my neck and shoulder to got added. In fact kuch seconds baad mera haal yeah hota hai that my face and neck are all wet and dripping with bacha ka saliva!!! Infact aisa lagta hai that a puppy has licked my face J I know it is a funny comparison but what I want to reflect here is the amount of affection showered by bacha. And gradually as bacha’s teeth started appearing, to the suck, bites too have been added with bites restricted to my shoulder in case I m talking to others and not to bacha(while she is in my lap) . At other times she tries to draw my attention towards her by either creating sounds while looking at me or she starts patting me chest just below my neck. Bus is samay Devaangi ki taraf dekho to u should see the mischievious smile on her face.
That's why I say that her Alka Mathur aunty is so correct when she says ki Devaangi ki face se sharaarat tapakti hai.... She is so naughty that you cna have her still for even a minute.
One thing that both me and paa enjoying doing with bacha is to make her sit on our shoulders. When I make bacha sit on my shoulders, she bends her face down, looks into my eyes, smiles to show her happiness and befor one realizes tries to suck and lick my cheek and takes my nose in her mouth all while bending down!!!
Aur aajkal ka trend to kuch aur hi hai... mera bandar oops i mean meri bandariya, clings to me just like a bandar ka bacha clings to it's mom. She holds on to my dress at the neck and yells when someone tries to take her from my arms. bilkul chipak hi jaati hai aur chodne kaa naam hi nahi leti hai... when anyone tries to take bacha from my arms, she pulls at my dress with such a tight grip and pressure that at times i feel ki yeah dress to phat gayi and i'll need to get a new one ;-) papa r u listening??? maa is ready for shopping!!!!
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